The pursuer/distancer dynamic resembles the anxious and avoidant couple. The pursuer, or the more anxiously attached Nervous type (AKA Nora or Nick), seeks closeness and validation. They might over-share, over-think, and want to connect quickly. Not only do they share about past hurts (see my last reel), they also ask lots of questions and […]
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The problem with generic advice like, ‘if you don’t hear back from them immediately it means they’re not interested,’ is that you assume that everyone is like you. You presume they have the same texting pace and Love Style that you do In reality, many people are slow to respond because they: Are
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Independent Isabelle feels this deeply. It’s less about avoiding people and more about what is at stake- fear of losing something, your independence. I named my character Independent Isabelle or Ian for that reason. The independent type feels misunderstood because people don’t understand you. They do want to date and hang out but they
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